Giving up on hopeless friend!
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Giving up on hopeless friend!
| Mon, 10-31-2005 - 8:30am |
one of my very best friends is driving me nuts when it comes to her and dating, and i think i'm ready to give up on her. she has had a good share of relationships, but every single one, she has to cause drama. it's like she feeds on it. if she is dating a guy who is playing games with her, she's a wreck, doesn't end things, goes back to him every time...if she's dating a guy who is "available too much, no mystery" (aka NORMAL, GOOD GUY!), she finds him unattractive and no mystery, and wants to end things. she criticizes guys for the MOST RIDICULOUS things..he has big ears...he has big ear lobes...he's not muscular, he's flabby, etc. she admits she has relationship issues, but i'm beginning to sound like a broken record when i talk to her! it's the same thing over and over again...and i'm losing my mind! i'm newly married so i feel like she thinks "well, what do you know, your married." HAH! i feel like as much as i want to help her and as muc has i love her, she's driving me NUTS!!! what do i do?

Sorry, bellaboston!
Pianoguy doubts there is ANY WAY you can help your friend?
WHY?
Because she's looking for a 'flaw' in every man before she gives him a chance! Part of this might be dramatic, but I honestly believe she's happier bitching than trying to make a relationship work?
You have 2 choices: Put up with her nonsense or just walk away! She'll probably bitch about you too if you decide to take the 2nd option!
Pianoguy