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| Thu, 12-14-2006 - 8:20pm |
I met a guy one night while out with a female friend at a restaurant. We conversated and he asked me for my number before leaving. I got his number also. He promised he would take me to dinner when he had free time. Well we ended up meeting one night, a call I initiated, to go to dinner. I drove to the dinner spot and he met me there in his own car. We had dinner and drinks and decent conversation. I invited the guy back to my house just to talk. We talked for about another hour then he left. I met this guy in July. Well he is 34 and single, never married with no children. I am 27 single, never married with no children. The guy and I began a sexual relationship about a month after we met. We would do the late night, early morning phone calls to come over for a visit. He comes over at least once a week or I go over there. He has slept at my place a few times and I have done the same. We got out on dates almost every weekend. We usually go to the movies and dinner. I drive and meet him at the places, he rarely ever picks me up. He usually picks the places we go also. So we go out sometimes during the week, he calls me and invites me to have dinner after work. We rarely talk to on the phone at night. I may call him to say hello or pretend to ask him something important just to see what he is doing. We do send text messages almost every day. This guy has never kissed me before. We have sex and never kiss. Before and after our eating dates we always hug as greeting and ending.
The problem is I have never met any of his friends or family. He talks about them, but I never met them. He even talks about past relationships. I was told by him that he was afraid to get close to anyone right now because of being in love with someone in the past and having to let the relationship go due to some insecurity and trust issues by the girl.
Am I wasting my time on this guy? Is he going to hold me to the standards that he wanted in this person that he loved so much? Is he only hanging out with me until he finds the right person?
| Thu, 12-14-2006 - 8:24pm |
