Going back to the ex-girlfriend

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Registered: 08-14-2004
Going back to the ex-girlfriend
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Sat, 08-14-2004 - 2:33am
I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. All the sudden he started withdrawing and wouldn't go out with me. I asked him about it, he said he is thinking about his ex-girlfriend and is thinking about getting back with her. What should I do? Should I stop him from going back to her or should I just break up with him before he makes his decision? Please help, I'm so confused.
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Sat, 08-14-2004 - 8:01am
Well he obviously has unresolved feelings from his previous relationship.
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 07-02-2003
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 9:18pm
Drop him! I had the same thing happen to me recently--only he didn't bother telling me that he was back with her. I had to find out that he was ENGAGED to his ex through a mutual aquaintance. He was with her off and on for 8 years and finally asked her to marry him... while he was still seeing me!

Give him some space and tell him he needs to get his act together or you're gone. Don't end up in my shoes!