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| Wed, 09-01-2004 - 9:15pm |
The guy I like got divorced about a year and a half ago...about 3 months ago he said he's not dating again for five years (He'll be 28 then), and that love sucks, girls have too many emotional problems, all girls are over-dramatic - why aren't there any sane women left on this planet, etc.....his ex-wife still calls and leaves mean messages on his cell, and really shoots down his self-esteem, luckily he has a lot of great friends...but he's ok flirting/ hitting on girls, and talking to them (and was doing that 3 months ago). I've gotten all this info from a mutual friend. I really like him, he's an amazing person, and i was wondering if you guys think he's ready for a relationship, if i should tell him i like him and see where that takes us, or just remain friends...?
Do you think he's flirting with girls, trying to get back his confidence with women, before he'll be confidenet enough to ask someone out...? Would he be ok if someone else, namely me, asked him out?
-Marilyn, friend of Liz Anne (Lizzy534)

So, you haven't talked to this man yourself?
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-Marilyn
I think you should give the guy some space. Maybe talk to him and find out more about him, since he may not really be the guy you think he is. Offer a friendship, but don't be telling him you're interested. Get to know him and find out where he is.
Hopefully he will work through the issues with the ex.
Alison
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