going out with guy #2

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Registered: 08-22-2003
going out with guy #2
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 10:01pm
i ve been dating one guy, R for about 2 months now. we've decided to wait to be physical although we had one night where we did have sex. but we talked about it & decided it best to not make things complicated and take things slow. i like him, but i'm having doubts regarding him.

a week ago, this guy M called me after 2 1/2 months of not seeing each other. we onlhy went out one time before and lost touch. i was very busy as was he.

he & i hooked up on that date.

i'm going ot see him this weekend (M). R is going away and i decided to stay in town since ive been traveling alot. things iwth R aren't satisfying me completely because of a few things, one being the cheap factor i wrote about earlier this week.

is it wrong to hook up w/ guy #2? I think of M more of a hook up/have fun rleationship, nothing serious... so i dont have an issue hooking up w/ him like i do R. R i believe there some sort of future... not sure what though. but we haven't had the exclusive talk yet. we've had the sex talk (agreed to wait), the ex talk as of last weekend...

i know this question frequents these boards. But now ive found myself in this dilemna... not sure how i shoudl handle this.