Gonna give it a try!
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Gonna give it a try!
| Tue, 08-02-2005 - 1:27pm |
Well,
I saw my older "friend"? (not a boyfriend, not a friend... we are somewhere in that dating no-man's land) again this weekend. Though he didn't call me all last week, I decided to see him when he called Friday night.
I had a great time.
I also saw him Monday, which was a holiday here. Again, terrific time. I've told my nosy friends to MYOB, where it concerns his age. And I've just focused on how good it feels when we spend time together.
This is my first series of dates in ten years... I am nervous!
Thanks to everyone here for their support.
L
I saw my older "friend"? (not a boyfriend, not a friend... we are somewhere in that dating no-man's land) again this weekend. Though he didn't call me all last week, I decided to see him when he called Friday night.
I had a great time.
I also saw him Monday, which was a holiday here. Again, terrific time. I've told my nosy friends to MYOB, where it concerns his age. And I've just focused on how good it feels when we spend time together.
This is my first series of dates in ten years... I am nervous!
Thanks to everyone here for their support.
L

<<<... we are somewhere in that dating no-man's land>>>
Do you want to get into a deal where you don't even know where you stand? A dating no-man's land kind of a deal doesn't sound so good to me. It can go either way, ya know? If I remember well, this guy is older than you and not so well kept, and you're not not even final in your divorce. However, if you're game, go fo it! He could be your rebound.
It's not that I don't know where I stand... it is simply that we've been out about four times and only once were we alone. We aren't close enough yet to be "boyfriend" but he's not just "friend"... somewhere in between. If all goes as planned, though, maybe by next weekend or the week after, it will be "boyfriend". It just seems like such a silly word... you know?
We don't want to rush things, we want to get to know each other a bit. But, on the positive side, he did tell me that he doesn't want to see anyone else, and would appreciate that if I do decide to date someone else that I let him know first so he could step out of the picture... a polite way of saying "I would like it if we were exclusive". And yes, I asked him if that was what he meant. :)
Thank you!