Is this a good idea?
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Is this a good idea?
| Sun, 06-20-2004 - 9:56pm |
My exboyfriend has contacted me again recently and wants to see me. We never really broke up, but because of circumstances in his life, we never got to see each other and ended up losing contact. It's been a year since we talked seriously or saw each other. My feelings for him have never changed and I think his may still be the same. We've agreed to just take things slow for now. He's having a hard time right now...just with life in general. Past problems coming up and things that are mostly beyond his control. I want to do something for him to get his mind off of everything. About 30 minutes from where we live is an island that you can camp on. You take a ferry over and set up camp in one of about 10 cites. It's pretty secluded (probably about 20 or so people) and seems like a good "get away" place. I will plan everything and probably surprise him with it. We talk like we've always been good friends and I don't think it would be awkward to spend the time together. It would be more as friends than anything romantic. Does this sound like a good idea or do you think it would be wierd? Is this bad timing? Remember that I haven't seen him in a year. Do you have any fun ideas of things that we could do? Other than sexual things.
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| Sun, 06-20-2004 - 11:56pm |
Taking him away for the weekend is taking him away for the weekend...that's not keeping things light unless you're putting yourself out there for uncommited sex.
| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 12:27pm |
That's a tough one. I think it's a nice thing that you want to do for him. But, taking him away to a secluded island...........might send the wrong message. I probably wouldn't jump into something like that right now. Pack a picnic and go to a park or something like that. Don't give him any ideas that the two of you are going to get romantic right away. You said that his life is kind of messed up right now, don't add fuel to the fire. He needs to figure things out and right now he may be thinking that bringing you back into his life might solve everything. You are familiar to him and if you had a nice relationship before, you are safe to him. Whatever you do, make sure it is just on a friendly basis. For now at least.
| Tue, 06-22-2004 - 11:32am |
Planning a surprise getaway is not a "friend" thing to do.
