good or bad crush

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2004
good or bad crush
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Tue, 03-30-2004 - 3:15pm
ok so here's the thing. i have a major crush on my best friend's "ex" friend that she was getting to know (they never were bf/gf). i told him how i feel about him but he said he doesn't want to mess up our friendship. i respect his wishes; however, it's hard just being his friend. ya this may sound really stupid but it's tearing me up. part of me thinks i should try and stop liking him (i don't know how) and the other part of me wants to hold on to hope however small it might be. i really dont know what to do.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Sun, 04-04-2004 - 10:09am
Reverse the situation--what would you want your best friend to do? And how would you advise her?