good on paper but good for me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
good on paper but good for me?
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Mon, 11-26-2007 - 10:17am

been sort of dating this guy,
i am very much so attracted to him, and we have fun and laugh together.
i do miss him, now and then when i dont see him.
we dont see each other often,once a week usually.
We are supposed to be taking this slow... but things are going soooo slow...
i agreed to it all... but i am getting bored.
and i do not know if i really want this anyways.

because i am not in love, not yet anyways...
i do not see him often.. and that kind of doesnt really help at all with the whole " getting on cloud nine" "feeling the butterflies" or "feeling swept of my feet"
and i sort of neeeed to see someone often to fall for them.

and i guess i am worried if i only like him because i should...
because we have fun when we talk
because we have fun when we kiss
because we have all the other stuff, but where are the butterflies.......? Are they hiding?

Any advice?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 11-26-2007 - 11:37am
Hehe...did you want advice or did you want to write a poem?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 4:11pm

In the past I've dated

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 4:33pm
I agree- trust your gut!
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