Good sign??

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Good sign??
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 6:42pm

Please read my post "Looking at me as a friend?"

I had sent a casual email to this guy "Haven't talked to you in a while... How's your long weekend coming along? Doing something special or just laying back and relaxing? drop me a line or call me .. whenever .."

The guy responded today early in the morning. At the end of the email he wrote "We should plan to meet .."

Is this a good sign, considering that he had not initiated contact since the past 2 weeks and I had to write him an email? or am I over-analysing it?

I want to meet him ... not to sound too excited in my response to him, please advise on sending him a positive reponse.

Thanks.

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In reply to: sk3035
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 5:33pm
Well not too much really, I was super stressed about my whole love issue for a while...but lately I've started to care less. I guess I'm just letting things happen the way they will. Not that I don't think about it often, but I figure stressing about it is just going to make me miserable. Have you had any luck meeting some new guys? Maybe this time you'll find one with some guts and a willingness to call you, 'cause you definitely deserve that. People say that chivalry is dead, but I still think the guy can take some initiative and make the effort to spend time with you. Besides, i think chivalry is kinda nice :-)! Keep me updated on your situation!
~Ashley
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Mon, 07-10-2006 - 6:40pm

Don't worry, everything will fall in place for you. Take it easy, relax, try sorting out your feelings and always keep in mind that you have your entire life in front of you.

As for this guy, I wrote him that email with my thoughts on "How/when/where" on thursday and I haven't heard back from him. I don't think he is interested ... and I don't think I'll take the initiative again.

I've been talking to a few more guys, met 2 of them ... never heard back from 1 and the second followed up on the meeting/is interested in meeting again.

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Tue, 07-11-2006 - 10:44pm

Well, I heard back from this guy today .. he sent me an email saying that this month is busy for him but now that he knows what my thoughts are on meeting-up, he will plan accordingly and wants to shoot for August/Sept to meet up.

What do you all think about his reply?

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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 11:44am
Well I'm glad for you that you have continued to meet new people, and it sounds like one of them at least has some potential. Did you enjoy your date or get together with him? Yeah, so for a while I was not at all worried about my situation, but just over the past few days it seems like everything is getting crazy again. For a while I had not seen Jimmy or Zach (Zach is my current bf by the way), but now I've seen them both a lot recently and its made things difficult. When I'm around Jimmy I want to break up with Zach and take my chances with him, but when I'm around Zach I can't imagine calling it quits with him to date someone I don't know all that well. I guess I do best when I'm not around either of them, although I think about it all the time. I would forget about the other guy and pursue some of the other men you've been seeing, perhaps you will find that you really like one of them. Let me know how things turn out!
-Ashley
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Thu, 07-13-2006 - 2:17pm
Absolutely. the best policy is to live your life!!
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Sun, 07-16-2006 - 6:30pm

Agreed that I should in the meantime live my life and I am talking to other men. As far as this guy is concerned, when he sent me the email saying that this month is busy for him and that we should meet sometime in Aug/Sept .. I replied to his email saying "Aug/Sept is fine, no worries. How's your week coming along?"

I haven't heard back from him .. it's been 5 days.

Considering that he's been emailing me back within 4 days, I don't think anybody can be that busy to not call or email back.

Do you think I will hear from him only when he plans to visit me?

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