GREAT first date... now what?

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Registered: 04-04-2003
GREAT first date... now what?
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Wed, 09-14-2005 - 2:48pm

I had an awesome first date with a really hot guy last night :-) We had a blast and spent a ton of time laughing. He even suggested we extend the date and go grab some icecream (hello, I love ice cream!) and also brought up the possibility of me subbing on his work volleyball team this fall when they are short on people. The night ended in a good hug... I don't like to kiss on the first date.

We don't have eachother's phone numbers... just email addresses (we met online). Should I wait a day or two for him to email me? Or should I send a quick "had a great time" email to him? I don't want to be pushy, but I want him to know I had fun and would like to see him again. Both of our schedules are pretty busy so I don't want to lose touch.

Any thoughts?

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Registered: 09-09-2005
Wed, 09-14-2005 - 2:51pm
I would just wait for him to contact you. He will if he wants a second date.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-14-2005 - 5:14pm

If you want to know his real interest level in you, I wouldn't send him an email (that is, assuming you thanked him on the date and made it clear from your enthusiasm that you were having a good time).

If you send the email, and he responds, you won't know if he's just being polite, or if he's really interested. Therefore, I'd wait for him to contact you.

Sheri

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Wed, 09-14-2005 - 6:03pm
I would wait for him to initiate contact. Sheri is right. If you write and he responds, you wouldn't really know if he is just being polite or really interested.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 1:10pm

I'd give him time to make the first move.


Sherry

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