"great personality," but...
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"great personality," but...
| Wed, 10-26-2005 - 10:42am |
I just started going out with this wonderful guy - he treats me well, he takes the time to really try to understand me, and we're able to talk about basically anything. I love him as a person, and I feel emotionally connected to him. The "BUT" is, though, that I'm not as physically attracted to him. To what extent should looks play into how I rate a significant other?

crazycatlady420...
PG suggests that you consider the ENTIRE package...not just if there's physical attraction or not!
Nobody's LOOKS will last forever...since each of us is subject to the aging process. .
The biggest decision you have is whether you wish to "stay just friends" or take the relationship up a notch! And nobody on this board can help you when it comes to this sort of a choice!
Pianoguy
Edited 10/27/2005 10:39 am ET by lesleylou
haha...the joke was on me because once the sexual attraction to him started -- it hit me like a ton of bricks.
I still don't think my SO is very 'good looking' -- at least not in the conventional way. But because we do connect on so many levels, to me he is adorable and very sexy.
you don't say how long you've been dating or far you've gone physically (if at all). but when two people connect on many levels the physical can follow
laughing, trusting, spiritually connecting - that can be an aphrodisiac