guy ignores me after a fun time?!

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Registered: 04-02-2004
guy ignores me after a fun time?!
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Wed, 07-07-2004 - 1:13am
a guy and i dated about a year ago for about 5 months.... i had ignored him for about 6 months after i realized he didn't want to have any form of commitment. we recently reconnected and started talking everyday. we finally went out twice in a row, back to back within 2 days. he suddenly stopped talking to me for no apparent reason. i can't figure out what went wrong?! we had good conversation cathing up with each other, and overall had a great time hanging out together enjoying each other's company. any ideas as to why this guy would ignore me?!!
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Registered: 07-07-2004
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 1:55am
Who knows why people do these things. Sometimes things just happen. Did something come up in your conversation that might give him a wrong impression? Or is he the kind of guy who likes to come and go and not realize that he is being rude? Sometimes people will just pop up every now and again and not think twice about the fact that they may have seriously confused someone with their actions.

Does this guy have a tendency of kind of going AWOL, then just showing up as if nothing happned?

I would probably think these things before thinking you did something wrong. Most of the time it's the person who is a flake and not you. I think maybe you should just leave it as is and move on. If he comes back ask him flat out. Don't beat around the bush with the guy, ask him what happened. Then tell him that you did not appreciate it and you don't look forward to repeating the experience again with him. This guy may be use to being allowed to do this with people and they don't say anything, so he thinks it's ok.

Besides a flake doesn't always make a great partner.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 11:46am
Um... didn't you say that you IGNORED him before? And now you're wondering why he's ignoring YOU? Doesn't take much to see that maybe he's giving you a dose of your own medicine. Don't give this guy the time of day. He didn't want a serious relationship before, which is why you ended it. He probably feels the same way now. Why bother with a guy like that? Go and find a nice guy who isn't into playing around, one that wants a relationship to begin with.

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Registered: 04-17-2004
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 7:35pm
Maybe he's giving you a taste of your own medicine?