guy ignores me after a fun time?!
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guy ignores me after a fun time?!
| Wed, 07-07-2004 - 1:13am |
a guy and i dated about a year ago for about 5 months.... i had ignored him for about 6 months after i realized he didn't want to have any form of commitment. we recently reconnected and started talking everyday. we finally went out twice in a row, back to back within 2 days. he suddenly stopped talking to me for no apparent reason. i can't figure out what went wrong?! we had good conversation cathing up with each other, and overall had a great time hanging out together enjoying each other's company. any ideas as to why this guy would ignore me?!!

Does this guy have a tendency of kind of going AWOL, then just showing up as if nothing happned?
I would probably think these things before thinking you did something wrong. Most of the time it's the person who is a flake and not you. I think maybe you should just leave it as is and move on. If he comes back ask him flat out. Don't beat around the bush with the guy, ask him what happened. Then tell him that you did not appreciate it and you don't look forward to repeating the experience again with him. This guy may be use to being allowed to do this with people and they don't say anything, so he thinks it's ok.
Besides a flake doesn't always make a great partner.