Is this guy into me? I can't tell...
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Is this guy into me? I can't tell...
| Thu, 01-05-2006 - 7:01pm |
A personal trainer at my gym hit on me a while back ago and asked me if I wanted to go out and eat. I replied with a friendly no and said I had plans later to go and eat with someone else. He replied with ok...and he told me that he'd see me around and that was it. I took this guy as kinda cocky cuz he easily approached me at the gym. The next day I see him again at the gym...I am at a cardio machine and he passes by and flicks my ear with his finger. I laugh it off, although I found it pretty immature of him. After I am done on the cardio machine and he is done personal training a client of his, he approaches me and we begin talking and he asks me what I'm doing over the weekend. Casual talk...a bit annoying in his part though. I had been soo tired from just coming out of a cardio machine for one full hour that I could bearly talk right...as a matter of fact I was falling asleep. He then asks me, "Are you always like this?" and I reply, "what?" and he then replies, "always like this, like your about to fall assleep" and I reply "I'm really tired and I'm a pretty mellow person to begin with." and then he replies, "Is it because your shy?" and I reply "no...I'm just mellow like I said." He then gives me a funny look and states, "you think I'm mean huh?" I found him pretty annoying by this moment. So I told him, "Look I'm working out and I'm busy" And he states, "Ok then, I guess I will leave now since you don't like me." and he gets up from the machine next to me and begins to kill time by working on duty (like he's supposed to). So we go our seperate ways and leave it at that. After I finished, I walk out of the gym and we both wave goodbye and that was it. I got really sick for a whole month so I didn't go to the gym. I recently went back three days ago where I see him, but it had been a while and we didn't make eye contact, we just pretended to be strangers. Then today, I notice he's looking at me from a distance while he's working out so I pass by and flash him a smile and a hello, he replies with a simple hi as well...nothing to it. I then figure by this point he's probably not interested in me. But about the middle to my workout we pass right next to each other and we both kinda smile at each other and I couldn't help but slap him in his arm...I know it was childish but I wanted to see his reaction. He then goes, "what was that for?" and reply, "your flabby buddy" and he goes, "Yeah well thats why I'm working out". and I go ok...and we have a casual conversation from there, he asks me what I'm doing after the gym and I tell him I got to apply at several places and he replies to apply at the gym...and I state that I might. Anyway before I go on and on, the last thing he says is "are you coming tommorow?" and I reply, "yeah, I'll be here" he then states, "ok then I will see you tommorow" and that was it...I can't tell if he's even attracted to me because he hasn't asked me for my phone number or anything. I don't know, but I really can't tell. I guess I will assume he's not into me. Just curious I guess. Anyway, tell me what you think...

Hi Adriana and welcome to the board!
Ok, explain something to me... it sounds like you're not into him, so why are you worried if he's into you? Sounds like he's been flirting but hasn't gotten anything back. So why worry about if he's into you or not? If you don't like him, then leave him be..
Anyway,Thank you!!!
Love
Adriana
Bye bye.