Guy Not Talking What To Do Now?

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Registered: 12-11-2010
Guy Not Talking What To Do Now?
Tue, 11-06-2012 - 9:37pm

UGH I don't know what to do. This one guy and I who I've been talking too for 4 days now stopped talking to me yesturday afternoon. I texted him at noon today saying that I hope he had a good day. But its now 6:30PM and no reply from him since we last spoke yesturday. :( What should I do?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 1:01pm

Don't do anything--maybe he was actually busy.  If he wants to get in touch with you, he will.

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 10:48pm

musiclover12 wrote:
<p>Don't do anything--maybe he was actually busy.  If he wants to get in touch with you, he will.</p>

Yes, the guy could be legitimately busy. In any event, you two don't have a formal commitment yet and it is possible he found out something from you that was a turn-off. Unfortunately, that is par for the course with online encounters. You just need to sit back, wait, and see. There's nothing more you can do now. Hopefully, he is just busy with work or with a visiting out of town buddy.

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Registered: 12-15-2011
Sun, 11-11-2012 - 6:23pm
Hi Girlie! First thing is first— DON'T SWEAT IT! I understand that you guys have been constantly talking for four days now, but just because he hasn't responded back ASAP doesn't mean anything! It's the weekend, people get busy, things unforeseen come up, phones die.. the list goes on and on. Just hang in there- I'm sure there is a logical reason for it. The only time to worry is when you haven't heard from him for a week! Keep yourself occupied! Don't make him your focus. A couple hours of not speaking shouldn't be too big of a deal when you have plans of your own! :) xox! Amy twitter: amylaurentmatch facebook: amylaurentmatchmaker