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| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 11:22am |
Okay I will give you some background information, my friend well call her Sherri and I started hanging out with this guy we will call him Mike November of last year. At the time we all started hanging out Sherri had a crush on Mike so I took no interest in him because that is what a good friend is back off if the other one is interest well we all hung out together for 3 months and in that 3 months Sherri had spent the night over Mike's several times but nothing ever happened between them no kissing, no holding hands, and no sex. Well, at around February I would call Sherri to hang out and she would just leave me hanging and I know she was hanging with Mike and probably wanted him all to herself. Well, we hung out on St. Patty's day and I meet this guy we will call him Brad I guess she had been talking to, well he took and interest in me instead of her so him and I started talking. One night in April I called her and texted him to see what they were up to, well I get a text back saying don't text or call us anymore s/b. So I was very upset and I said I wouldn't call or text them after this. Well, being a woman I don't like not having closure so I tried calling him and he never answered his phone or call me back so I let it go. Being a good friend I decided to call her because I missed hanging with her and tried calling her in mid-April I had no luck so I decided to call Shane at his work, he couldn't talk on the phone so I went to his work and we talked for a bit then exchanged numbers. Well, we started hanging out and talking every day for two weeks, Sherri not knowing any of this. It was like we just clicked we could hang out and just have fun staying in. Well, needless to say during that time we held hands but didn't kiss because we were taking things slow. Well, two and a half weeks ago Mike roommate got drunk while he was out and told Sherri that Mike and I were hanging out that night after Mike had told her he was sick and couldn't chill with her. She called and got mad and nasty with him and he told her it was no of her business. Well, three days after that when we talked we established we were interested in each other. Well, I haven't heard from him since that last phone call. But I have gotten some news since then that guy Brad I mention earlier called me a couple days ago and said that Sherri had wrote that message and that she always told him that I was have sex with other guys, which is a complete lie I haven't had sex in 5 years. I have also learned that Sherri and her have been hanging out for the past week and a half together. So after this long story my question for you is what should I do about Mike? Do you think Sherri could have said something to him to make him stop talking to me?

You should MOVE ON...even at younger ages, you should be able to find a more honest and trustworthy guy.
And as to Brad, dump him too! If he didn't send the message, he should have apologized IMMEDIATELY after it happened...not "later"...bc if he respected you, he wouldn't have wanted you to have hurt feelings. Before you try to defend him remember he had to LET Sherri send the message, and he obviously KNEW about it and KNEW you were going to be hurt.
You need new friends.
Good luck.