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guy with a record?!
| Tue, 08-30-2005 - 8:43pm |
I have been planning on meeting someone I met online this weekend, however I just got his full name and did a quick criminal record search and found he was charged with battery and disorderly conduct.... in a domestic case.... a year ago. The battery was dismissed, disorderly conduct he plead guilty to. I don't know the details of the case.
It is right for me to blow him off completely now that I know this? I don't know the details and I feel like I should before I blow off someone who might be harmless.
ANy ideas?

Frankly, I don't know the answer seya79. I don't want to say-yes go meet him..and put you in harm's way, and at the same time, it is also possible that it's not what it looks like and he is a good guy or has learned from his mistakes etc. What does your instinct say? If you have this "fear" inside of you, then don't go. It is going to cloud everything even after you meet him. You wouldn't be able to shake this off. And how would he take it if you revealed to him that you did a background check on him. Things will be highly uncomfortable perhaps. Unless, you both have an honest talk about everything without pointing fingers. Think twice. Is this really needed?
Btw, mind sharing where you got this information? Was it a paid site?
lftlgirl,
I live in wisconsin and the state circuit court records are available to the public, free, online. It comes in quite handy, now I am beginning to find!
Wow that's pretty good. I don't mind having this tool myself.
It's great you thought of checking it out. Information is power.