guy talk---what does this mean?

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Registered: 06-13-2004
guy talk---what does this mean?
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 9:53am
Okay--guys and ladies if a guy said this to you (several times) what would you decode it as meaning? It pertains to OUR relationship--not him personally k? Okay here goes, "In 6-9 months--you will not have to ask anything..you will know where I am at, what I am doing and my intentions" I know it sounds kind of strange-but everytime he brings "us" up this is the statement that he makes--maybe Im just stupid--but I am not exactly sure what this means? Anybody have any clue? LOL Thanks
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 12:08pm
I have no idea other than the guy sounds like a flake who can't give a straight answer???

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Registered: 05-14-2003
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 2:19pm
It sounds to me like he's either going to break up with you or propose to you. Weird statement for sure though...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:10pm
Sounds like he understands the fact that most relationships start with a heavy dose of infatuation and that it takes time (6 to 9 months is reasonable) to truely get to know someone. This is time well spent to get to know someone BEFORE making life changing decisions. During this time you will also see by his actions where he is headed.
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Registered: 08-04-2004
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 4:10pm
Ma'am -

this guy sounds

a: deep

b: moderately intelligent (maybe moreso)

and c: like he likes you.

The phrase about how, in 6 or 9, youll have no questions, is pretty much right on. He sees himself with you in the end portions of the time frame laid, and in that period, he feels assured you will get to know him and his deal all the way round.

"In 6-9 months--you will not have to ask anything..you will know where I am at, what I am doing and my intentions"

That is intelli-guy code for, "if you are good to me and dont pull anything too crazy, youll get that chance to know where I am at. At the same time, life is flimsy, things change, no one can honestly know what lies in the hearts of men (and women). So stick around, well learn each other, and in 6 mos, youll know everything you need to regarding an US."

Basically, you got him for a while, and he sees you as a potential life partner.

But you do silly things that drive men away, and in 9 months, youll have an answer, though you may be alone when you get it.

Hope this helps you out -

If I knew more about ol' dude's intellect and history with you (particulars way too particular for this site here in public land...) I'd better be able to apply some better analysis, but on the basics, his quote is indicative of his wanting to keep you onboard for a while longer, so you can find out whats what.

GOOD LUCK!!

Richard