Guys only. Why don't you kiss her?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2004
Guys only. Why don't you kiss her?
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 8:07am
This should be very simple. This is just a question and I would like the response of men only if possible. Here's the scenario: You have a woman who is a friend, you have been having a physical relationship, But you never kiss her in the mouth, Despite the fact that you kiss other intimate parts of her anatomy. Why would you not kiss in the mouth?

If you can clearly and obviously enjoy sexual intercourse, giving her oral sex, and the like What would make you not kiss her in the mouth?

Guys only please,, I am very curious.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 10:09am
Come on Somebody has to have a logical response to this!!!!!

I really would like to know others opinions on this issue
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 10:39am
I'm not a guy, but lemme take a stab at this.

If he's not kissing you on the lips, that's a sign that his feelings for you are purely sexual and he doesn't want to kiss you on the lips because he thinks of that as an intimate thing between two people who care about eachother.

For example: I always feel more "close" to a guy when we're kissing than when it's just sex.

My thoughts are the guy isn't into the person he's sleeping with - he's enjoying the act, but he isn't emotionally invested in the relationship.

Just my opinion.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 12:31pm
I agree. I'm not a guy either, but obviously he just wants sex, and doesn't really care about you.

Sorry!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 1:17pm
While I appreciate all replies. I am looking for the responses of men on this one.

I suspect that both you and the other poster are more than likely correct, however a man's point of view of needed at this time.

Thanks!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 1:36pm
I understand your need to have a man's point of view, but I don't think any man's going to tell you any different than what we've said. If you're looking for men to answer, try the "Ask Mr. Answer Man" board or the "Guy Talk" board.

Are you asking this question for yourself?

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