Guys, would you say something or not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2003
Guys, would you say something or not?
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Sun, 09-11-2005 - 1:47pm

Hey guys, a hypothetical situation for you:

Say you a leaving (be it a job or school or whatever), and you have a crush on/interested in a girl at your job/school. Would you at least say something to her, be it ask her straight out or engage her into conversation?

Do you only say something if you think she is interested back, or do you go for it figuring you have nothing to lose?

What if you two are pratically strangers?

Ladies are very welcome to comment too, thnx so much!! ;)

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2003
Sun, 09-11-2005 - 5:15pm
First one to reply. Me a girl :-) haha.
But okay, from my experience, guys who were interested tried to engage me in a conversation by asking me something or commenting on something or coming and introducing themselves. Asking out was later. But first they wanted to just talk and get acquainted. They sure did take the initiative. And all were fairly relaxed and outgoing people. I specifically remember 2 of those. They really flirted with me. Made me laugh etc. Personally speaking, (and I am not generalizing so please dont kill me :-), I have found the shy guys to be the most decent of folks, who might not put themselves blatantly forward, but they would be sincere in their hearts. And with these shy guys, I did have to take some initiative as well.