H E L P!! In love.. but should I stay?
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| Mon, 10-31-2005 - 4:45pm |
I am in love with the man I have been dating for the past year. Recently we had some issues, mainly balance issues in our lives (we are both very busy.. and graduating from university this year). We are both suffering with the stress of not knowing where we will be in 6 months, and what to do with our lives after graduation. There is also a lot of recent stress from school, death in families, etc. Just the other day, my boyfriend told me he wasn't sure he wanted to stay with me, he really doesn't know what he wants in his life. But he took the statement back in the same night, claiming that he's never stopped loving me and that it would have been a big mistake to break up with me. I'm a little bit shaken up.. Do you think I should just chalk it all up to immaturity and give him space to breathe and figure out what he wants, while still being with him? Or am I just being dumb, and this is something you should just know- if you hesitate, is it done??
THANK YOU SO MUCH!

I remember when I was graduating from college. It was a very confusing time because I didn't know where I would end up. It is tough to work on a relationship when so much is up in the air. I'd give him a pass this time but you better learn to communicate more and better.
This is a learning opportunity for both of you.