Had the date - is he interested - help!
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| Tue, 11-23-2004 - 6:05pm |
Hi everyone, another continuation of my men and signals post (unfortunately for you guys!) Went on the date with this guy, everything seemed to be going well...he was asking lots of questions, asking where i went when i went out as he goes to the same town, and also asked if i was working this weekend - when i said no he mentioned something about he was having a private party...whether this was a indirect way of saying did i want to go im not sure.He did also say he had to go early as he had an early start in the morning, which i knew was true, also said something about i was the only female he'd met in a while who was his age and didnt have kids, etc, however, the other thing that come up which he was truthful about before(which was why he hadnt rung me to arrange the date) was that he was thinking of travelling. When i asked him when he said he wasnt sure, but did mention that he didnt want to live in England, and added on to this a couple of times its a real shame. This may sound daft but whether that was a if i was staying something could happen or a im going to say that to her because im not interested im not sure. Stupidly i mentioned my ex a couple of times......but only in the sense of who i went on holiday with when he asked, and then again but said by mistake my chap and then quickly corrected it to ex....not the best thing to say i know, which may have mucked it up a bit and made him think hang on a minute!
Anyway! At the end he said see you out in the town we usually go out in sometime, which i know isnt another good sign, asked if i was working tomorrow and then said see you in a bit.....which has left me a bit confused as to whether he is interested or not! The stupid thing is i texted him about 35 minutes later(had had a bit to drink) and said sorry to sound forward etc but just wondering if you wanted to do it again sometime, just thought i'd ask - which ive regretted doing since as it probably seems far too keen! Then sent another one saying sorry - that probably sounds really bad! That was almost 4 days ago now, and no reply, i know i've probably mucked it up but if anyone could let me know if they think he is interested that'd be great, as need to know whether to leave it or not.Have a feeling i have as obviously he hasnt texted back, help!

Thanks isosad, this may be why he hasnt texted back to my does he want to do it again sometime text....although surely that would have said to him that i was interested? The problem was by the time he'd said friends and family eh and i said oh no, i went with my ex, adn then mentioned it again.....what does everyone else think?
Alice x
well, i always look at it this way...
if he's interested, he'll call.
if he doesn't, he's not.