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| Tue, 04-20-2004 - 10:47am |
I have been dating this guy for a couple months now. I really like him, however his hairy back is really getting to me. I want to suggest nair or waxing, but not sure how to go about this. Any suggestions?

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Good luck
Carrie
Hey, nobody thinks it's strange when women have their legs! Don't you think a man would comment on your hairy legs, if you didn't shave them?
As someone who speaks my mind, I've had this conversation before. I just said, "I think a bare back is sexy...and I think it'd be a turn on if you let me nair you in the tub"...remember alot of times, its not WHAT you are saying but HOW you are saying it that has an impact. Keep it light and playful. If you act self conscious and try too hard to word it correctly...then you playing it like a BIG deal. And he will pick up on that. He has hair, a healthy man...you don't think its sexy...no problem, its fixable ;-)
Go.
Did he suddenly grown hair on his back, last week or something? Was the hair there when you met him? Have you "just been waiting" for the right time to suggest that he shave to meet your requirement?
Uh, maybe you should find someone who does not have a hairy back. I mean, why spend time with a guy whose back is hairy when you don't like hairy backs? Maybe it would be a good idea to stop dating the guy since you don't like hairy backs.
Why would you put yourself through the difficulty of dating a guy with a hairy back, when this whole hairy back thing is clearly a turn-off to you.
Why continue the relationship?
dh
Hi
First ask yourself how you'll feel if he's happy with his hairy back. Are you attracted to him otherwise? Is this his main flaw? Can you reconcile yourself to the hairy back if he doesn't want to
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