Have i been used? Does he not care?

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Registered: 08-13-2002
Have i been used? Does he not care?
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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 3:12pm
I have been dating or going out with this guy for about a year now. I have a car and he doesn't so i do all the driving, pick him up, go shopping with him etc. Recently he just came back from holidays, being away for over a month, i missed him so bad and he missed me too. He was back a week ago today (i also picked him up from the airport), and since then i saw him twice, one of the reasons why only that because i have kids and my time is limited. Last Sunday, after my kids left for the week to be with their dad, i called and as it's routine, i was going over to his place for the night. He told not too because his guy friend was comming over, and made other lame excuses. I got mad and hung up on him. It's been 3 days since that phone call, and he has not even called me. This is really bugging me i feel like i'm in love with this guy, i'm feeling hurt and this silence is killing me..I don't know what to do. Any advice? Thanks to all that reply.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Thu, 01-18-2007 - 4:45pm
Well, it sounds like he is pulling away from you. You have a couple of choices; either move on or get together in person and ask him as to what is going on with him. If he only sees you when it is convenient for him, then he is not worth all of your efforts. He didn't express a desire to see you on your anniversary? He doesn't sound like he is treating you very well.

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