Have I lost him?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2004
Have I lost him?
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Fri, 07-09-2004 - 1:25pm
Hi,

I need your advice. I've been seeing this guy for about a month. We had five dates and we'd had a lot of fun together. We also have some background things in common - He's had a difficult family life and so have I. On our last date, he asked me to go camping with him. We spent a night together cuddling, no sex. I was really feeling comfortable with him and we started talking about our familes. After he told me that his family was depressed, I happened to mention that so was my family, and that I was seeing a therapist.

He didn't act like it bothered him. On our trip back, we held hands and he kissed me goodbye. He said, "Sweetie, let me know what your schedule is like and maybe we could get together again."

I haven't heard from him since - it's been five days and I'm wondering if I should email him or not. Usually he emails me almost every other day and now the weekend is here and I haven't heard a word.

Have I lost him by telling him too much, too soon? Did I scare him off? Help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 2:47pm
Don't be so quick to write him off. He may have been busy, he may have been sick, who knows? You could send him a quick email to say hi and mention what your weekend plans are. If he doesn't respond to you or call you at all over the next few weeks, then I would just move on.

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Registered: 07-09-2004
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 3:54pm
Thanks Alison. I guess I'm just feeling insecure.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 5:10pm
everyone goes through that phase. just take it slow and don't assume what you don't know.

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