Is He??

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Registered: 03-01-2004
Is He??
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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 11:46am
Ok, so I have been dating this really great guy for about 3 months now, and things are going so great. I am so happy we met and are now in love. The only problem I am having with our relationship is his son's mother, she is constantly calling him just to talk about anything not regarding their son. He does not see a problem with it, because he tells me everyday how much he loves me and I am the only one he wants to be with, and he would never go back to her. She cheated on him and now she is with this guy. I just want to be able to trust him when i am not around.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: samantha1549
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 12:02pm










In the end you will have to trust him you can't feel insecure for if he does love you he will stay true to you no matter what :)

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Registered: 06-13-2003
In reply to: samantha1549
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 1:37pm
You've got to have trust in him or your relationship will never work. For whatever reasons, his ex is just that, his ex. My BF and his ex-wife are pretty good friends and they talk all the time. She pops in at the restaurant we frequent and will sit and have a beer with us. At first it was awkward for me, but I totally trust my BF so I have gotten past that awkward stage. He doesn't act any differently towards me when she is around and I feel that she is his past. He is with me because he wants to be. You gotta tell yourself that. He hasn't given you any reason not to trust him so don't let jealousy get the best of you.

Good Luck

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: samantha1549
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 2:20pm
If you don't trust him when you're not around you should not be with him and it is not his obligation to reassure you - here's some news - she can flirt all she wants - it takes two - it is in the best interests of his son that he have a good relationship with her and if he wants to cheat he will - all that matters is whether you trust him.