is he calling too much?

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Registered: 12-14-2006
is he calling too much?
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Wed, 02-07-2007 - 9:37pm

I've never dated much at all so I'm not sure what's normal. out of nowhere this guy I liked who used to work in my office started emailing me and then i gave him my number and he called me the same day and asked me out. so we're supposed to go out this weekend but for the past week he's been calling and emailing me pretty much every day so I barely get a chance to call or email him before he's called again.

Is this too much? we weren't really friends before this, though we had had a couple of long conversations at work. I'm starting to wonder if this is normal and I'm just not used to so much communication or if he's going a little overboard and i should be weirded out.

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Registered: 02-06-2007
Wed, 02-07-2007 - 9:52pm
He is probely just really excited to go on a date with you. If you are weirded out by the constent phone calls, then hint to him on your first date that you don't really like to talk on the phone. If he still constantly calling you after that then he might be moving to fast. I had a guy once that wanted to know where I was, who I was with, and what I was doing 24/7 after the first date. Needless to say I dumped him rather quickly after that because that could be the sign of over possesiveness. Hope this helps.
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Registered: 12-29-2006
Thu, 02-08-2007 - 11:09pm
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Edited 2/8/2007 11:10 pm ET by dandelions7