He calls....too little too late!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
He calls....too little too late!
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 12:13am
Hello again!

The gentleman caller I posted about decides after about 3 weeks to call, leaving vm's saying he is trying to get in touch with me....why? He wanted to date so bad, begin to build a relationship with me, then stood me up for a date, said he would make it up (that did not happen), makes plans, then feigns excuses. I have washed my hands of him and ignore his calls. I do not need all this smoke and not fire. Just thought I would share this update. Don't worry folks, I cut the fool, yet not a fool!

Thanks for your feedback!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:53am
I realize you aren't looking for advice with this post, but here's something to think about:

At this point you have nothing to lose because you've already written him off, right?

So why not have a chat with him say, when he does manage to catch you at home, and tell him the deal. It would be at least interesting to see what he has to say for himself, and it might leave both of you with one less confusing experience with the opposite sex. And hey, it never hurts to be on friendly terms with one more person.