Is he Cheating?

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Registered: 09-02-2005
Is he Cheating?
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Fri, 09-02-2005 - 5:41pm
I have been dating my special someone for about seven months now. Things have really been great and we have come a long way. But, lately he has been kind of distant. When we are one the phone, every five minutes he has to call me back. And everytime his cell phone rings, he either puts me on hold for a long time or again has to call me back. Is this a sign that he is cheating, or am I overreacting?
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 6:32pm
It's really hard to say. Did he do this before? Does he screen his cell phone calls when he's with you? My ex screened all his calls when he was with me unless it was his roomate or another male friend that I know. If he's always put you on hold or asked if he could call you back, then it could be that he's inconsiderate all the time and to everyone. If he's suddenly doing these things, it may be sign.

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 12:29am

does he tell you who he has been talking to? and regarding what.
is it the same person calling everytime, or does he talk to many different friends.
does he have a lot of friends? do you think he lies. is he trustworthy. there could be any number of trains of thought. does he share with you about what is going on? does he treat you the same as before or is that changing too. perhaps u need to just let him know that he seems distant and see what he says. is this a long distance relationship?