is he cheating?

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Registered: 06-04-2004
is he cheating?
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:01pm
My BF did something suspicious the other day. I had just gotten to his place and went to use his bathroom. Before I could close the door he followed me in to change the trash can bag. What could he have been taking away if not a poorly concealed condom?

I really don't want to believe he's cheating., but I'm having trouble coming up with another explanation.

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 12:47pm
After reading all the responses, I think you have a bit of a reason for suspiscion but not for anything regarding his bathroom trash.
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 3:09pm
The trash.............could have been any number of things. I didn't jump to any conclusions when I first read it. But, I can understand where you would maybe feel it was a bit strange that he decided that was the time to empty it. But, really not a red flag at that point.

Flirtatious notes posted on a message board....................did HE post them, or did someone else post them to him? I don't like that at all. Either way, he's on some message board doing something. I mean, we are all on a message board, but we aren't flirting with each other.

Standing you up for lunch and thinking he did nothing wrong. How would HE feel if you stood him up?

He isn't taking this relationship seriously. Do you really want a relationship like this?

You question was "is he cheating". In my opinion, if he's not cheating he's thinking about it.

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