Is He Confused? Or Messing with My Head?
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Is He Confused? Or Messing with My Head?
| Sat, 10-23-2004 - 12:37am |
I was dating a guy for about 6 months. And during this time we fell in love. It was my first love in fact. Recently this guy told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, which came to me as a shock. I don't understand it, because every single time we're together, it's great, and everything clicks. We have great chemistry, and we have an amazing bond. This breakup happened recently, and I decided that i didn't want to call him, because i dont want to re-hash feelings. But to my surprise, he keeps calling me, finding excuses to talk to me. He also told me recently that he still loves me, and knows that our love is so incredible, and he said he knows he's stupid for doing this, for letting go of US, because we are so good together. He said something just doesn't feel right, and doesn't think we should be together. I don't know what to think, because he tells me he misses me, loves me, and wants to see me...
Is there hope maybe he just needs time to work things out with himself, or is this a lost cause?
Is there hope maybe he just needs time to work things out with himself, or is this a lost cause?

I just went through the exact same thing. I know it makes absolutely no sense to you , it did not to me.
I feel that you should remain with no contact! Get out there and date and have some fun.
He is showing you his true color=big red flag! yield to that now before you get in deeper.
A man that loves you and WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, is NOT going to play games like this!