He didn't pay on the first date
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He didn't pay on the first date
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 2:14pm |
I went out for drinks with a guy that I met on an internet dating site. We had a great time and were at the bar talking for 5 hours. I thought things couldn't have been going any better, until the bill came and he let me pay for half. I always offer to pay but most often the guy insists on paying. It really bothers me that he accepted my money even though we only went out for drinks, not even dinner. Was this a deal breaker or should I go out with him again?

I would have noticed that as well- I had a similar situation with a first date- drinks....and it was happy hour, so cheaper. Our drink bill was an entire 8 dollars! And we split the bill..... I noticed it, but wasn't upset. Well, the guy was interested in me, but well, not intersted enough..... He liked going out with younger, dumber girls because he could have his way quickly and take them to cheap places and still get sex rather easily and quickly. It CAN be a reflection of other things- and in my experience, it often is. I had another guy do this and he constantly 'forgot' his wallet, etc.... others, were to cheap to offer to drive or pick me up, etc.... on and on.
Just wait and see, its too soon to tell.
I never offer unless I *want* pay half.
I would give him another chance. But don't offer next time!
Sheri
What I'm trying to say is that, there are some who can afford to pay but won't offer much and then there are other's who can't and their presence is priceless. So, you had a good time right, right. That's the only thing that should of been the last thought of your mind.