he doesn't want sex anymore

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Registered: 09-17-2003
he doesn't want sex anymore
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 5:07pm
SO I have been dating my boyfriend for about a little over 5months now...We had a period in our dating life in the beginning when things were a bit rocky where we decided to hold out on the sex to let the emotions build up . Then things are finally good and we are boyfriend and girlfriend and well he's been super busy with work ( he is working on a project where he will have 12-14 hour days sometimes and many people depend upon him ). Well lately we havent' had sex at all in like 2 weeks. One day we staretd to but he lost his erection. I don't know if he's stressed out or just not attracted to me anymore. We usd to have sex like 2 times a week at least when I would see him and now it's been 2 weeks. He's good to me and affetionate and took me out on a wonderful date this weeekend and spent it with me when he should have been working..( so he makes up for it during the weekdays by pulling extra hours) What should I do? What could this mean?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:19am

natash9..

This one is EASY! At least for Pianoguy!

First off....stop worrying about this! You aren't doing anything wrong. No doubt your b/f still DESIRES YOU in the bedroom?

But try to remember one thing....please???

ANY MAN who works 12-14 hours a day is going to "come home exhausted!" SEX (or even eating a meal) is the LAST THING we want. All we wanna do is keep a low profile and probably S-L-E-E-P!

So cut your b/f a little slack!

Once he returns to a "normal work schedule" and has enough time to ENERGIZE himself, you'll probably find that your sex life together will improve?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:32am
It means he is very stressed and very busy. When and if this big project is over, I would assume things will get back to normal.
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 11:19am

I was in the exact same boat as you last year.