Is he fishing for clues?
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Is he fishing for clues?
| Mon, 04-12-2004 - 5:01am |
Hi all, I dialed my ex boyfriend for the first time in a month and a half by accident and hung up. I love this man ( he broke up with me) and want him back. He broke up with me because I was too confused at the time and I needed to get perspective, basically bad timing. Well the next morning he calls and says I noticed you called just wanted to check in and make sure you are okay, I miss you haven't talked to you in a while and happy easter and if you need to talk about anything whatsoever please do call me. Well I emailed him said I speed dialed by accident and such. He then wrote back saying that is the shortest email you have ever wrote how are you?how are your parents? how is your work? how is life? For some reason I keep on feeling like he is fishing for clues to see if I am still interested. After we broke up he sent me an email saying maybe the role he plays in my life is that of a big brother and I can always call upon him if there is anything I need ( he wrote this 3 weeks ago). I haven't seen him since the break up I just email and such. have gone on a couple of dates with a couple of men but my heart is still his. Not sure how to handle this. I was told that if a man want's a women back he will let her know but he broke up with me because he I was so uncertain and he got fed up , I am thinking this is all a test .Every week for the past month he has called or left and email asking to see me and have dinner with me and I have told him I can't but he keeps on insisting with a I miss you and wants me to start Iming him. Is that something Anyone have any clue what he is thinking? Thanks
Edited 4/12/2004 2:30 pm ET ET by natash9
Edited 4/12/2004 2:30 pm ET ET by natash9

I think he called back b/c he is concerned about how you are doing, not anything more. Take him off of your speed dial so that you don't have any more dialing accidents, and move on with your life.
Time to take his number off your phone, don't you think?
Sheri
Sheri