He is getting COLD FEET!
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He is getting COLD FEET!
| Sun, 10-17-2004 - 9:44pm |
I am engaged to be married and he just told me that he doesn't know whether it is going to work out..... My question is, what is everyone's opinion on the engagement ring....if he breaks it off, do I keep the ring or does he get it back???? Looking for some feedback.
Thanks!!

This is what your name means in Japanese.... Yes you are very precious and you should not let him treat you that way... technically the ring is his so you don't need any bad memory. Go on with your life and you deserve someone who will truely love you and want to spend the rest of his life with you and can't wait to wake up next to you everyday. A ring doesn't mean anything.
An engagement ring is considered a promise of marriage and so whoever breaks that promise is supposed to forfeit the ring.
But why would you want to keep it? I guess if you wanted to sell it or something? but it will probably cause some bad vibes from him if you keep it...
A~
If he wants it back, just give it to him, why hold onto something that is never going to happen.
Also, it isn't necessarily cold feet, if more people listened to their intuition and didn't marry someone they weren't sure about there probably wouldn't be as much divorce as there is.
Why don't you wait to see if he asks for the ring back.