He had another girl there yesterday!!!
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He had another girl there yesterday!!!
| Tue, 10-12-2004 - 8:51pm |
So I'm in this relationship that has evolved into a great friendship. We have discussed trying to evolve into something more, but always agree that it's good the way it is right now. This girl kept calling him and he told me that she is not interested in him and that he would never be with her because of how different they are. But then this morning he told me that he was with her all night last night and that he kissed her. I was at a bar with some girlfriends last night and this guy gave me his number. I had no intention of calling him or anything like that so I told my guy. And that's when he told me about the other girl. We had already discussed what he had done last night and there was no mention of a girl. We have never agreed on not seeing other people, but both of us have not. Is he just trying to get me jealous because a guy gave me his number? Or is he secretly saying "I want to move on"?

Second question: Why did you feel the need to tell "your guy" about it? Were you hoping he'd get jealous?
The fact that he told you about the other girl right after you told him about the other guy giving you his number and your telling him that you have "no intention of calling him" shows that he wants you to know that he thinks you should move on and he wants to as well. It's not that he's "secretly" saying it - he IS saying it.
I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. It sounds like you've made your intentions clear to him - he doesn't HAVE to make you jealous because he knows you want to be with him.
It does not sound like he wants to be in a relationship with you.
For what it's worth, I think you SHOULD call the other guy. ;)