He Has never Said I love you
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He Has never Said I love you
| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 3:29pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for three years now, and he has never said I love you. When I ask him about it, he says I am supposed to say it first. I am the type of person who has always waited for the man to say it first. We live together and seem to have a good relationship, but he has never said it. Am I just wasting my time? Should I say it first and see what happens? I dont know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

Now and in the future, use this as your rule of thumb: It doesn't matter WHO says ILY first. What matters is that nobody says it until they truly mean it, and nobody says it ONLY to hear the other person's response. Say it if you mean it, but don't expect to hear anything back at all. If you can do that comfortably and confidently, then you're ready to say it to someone.
My 2¢.