he hasn't kissed me properly yet!

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Registered: 11-26-2003
he hasn't kissed me properly yet!
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 8:57am
I met this guy a couple of months ago and for the past month we have been interested in each other. We are performing in a musical together and see each other every night due to our performances.

He started emailing me and text messaging me about a month ago and things have hotted up since then and now we often hug and kiss. However, he hasn't kissed me properly yet and I am getting a bit impatient. I know he is very shy and doesn't talk to a lot of people, but I'm sooooo keen for that first real kiss. He has gone as far as kissing a bit more than a peck but not the real thing. How long is too long to wait for a kiss before giving up???? BTW, he is 28 and I'm 31... normally things would have hit the bedroom by now :)

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 9:56am
Have you zoomed in for the first kiss, That might be what he is waiting for, as in when he does a peck you deepen it.
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Registered: 11-26-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:14am
I laughed when I read your comment about him being gay! I have actually asked him a couple of times if he is gay, but he says no he isn't. And I have asked a girl who was in a previous show with him if he's gay and she said definitely not. So, I have to believe him seeing that I have asked!

I really want him to take the reins and kiss me properly first. I honestly believe that in the beginning men like to do the chasing and only after a little while the girl can take over some of the reins.

He is extremely good looking, but very shy and not 100% sure of himself. I think I bring out a confident side of him that he enjoys. I know he feels more secure when I'm around. I am very aware of the "show relationships" as I have been in one before which was a disaster, so maybe it's better if we leave it as is until reality kicks in and everyday life take over.

thanks for your advice, will keep you posted...