is he interested?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2004
is he interested?
2
Tue, 09-14-2004 - 7:06am
hello all,

i seem to have a knack of making most men i meet friends even when i am interested in more than friendship.

i am straight forward and don't like playing games or becoming unavailable or any of the well known tricks that we should/shouldn't (who knows) use.

i recently met a very nice man i like. he intitiated the contact and seemed interested at first and so i just acted like myself and began to call him and see him etc...

he seems to be more inclined now to think of me as a friend...he never initiates calls but always seems genuinly happy to hear from me or see me.

i'm not sure where he stands and i don't want or need another male friend in my life - i need a companion.

what should i do? SOS!

thanks

Visitor (not verified)
anonymous user
In reply to: i_dinah
Tue, 09-14-2004 - 7:57am
Only one way to find out. Stop initiating all of the calling. This way you can see if he takes his own initiative to call you. If he does, take it from there. If you stop calling him and you never hear from him again, then you have your answer.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: i_dinah
Tue, 09-14-2004 - 8:36am
Well, you said you started acting like yourself - calling, seeing him, etc.
,