Is he interested?

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Registered: 01-18-2004
Is he interested?
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Mon, 07-05-2004 - 12:22am
There is this guy that I met when I was out with friends back in October. We kinda hooked up and spent the night together (no sex though) but didn't exchange numbers or anything. A couple of months ago I saw him again at the same bar and we talked some more. Things were going well and we went to another bar together. Afterwards we were going to get a hotel room (we both lived a good distance away) but they were all booked due to several conferences in town. He wound up leaving with nothing more than a kiss but we did exchange numbers. He told me to call him the next time I came back into town. I talked to him a couple of times since then and I saw hme again last night. This time I planned ahead. I was going to the club with a couple of friends and we rented rooms at the nearby hotel. I called home a week ago and told him that we were comeing out that way and then I also called him the day before and left him a message (but he never called back). He did show up at the bar last night...45 minutes before they closed...but he only stayed about 30 minutes. The thing is I kinda have a boyfriend (the relationship's pretty much over, but we still live together for various reasons) so he won't call me. When I call him he seems happy to hear from me though. The thing is...why would a man drive 30 minutes to a bar to see someone for only a few minutes? I'm not sure if he's keeping his distance because of the boyfriend issue or if he's not interested. Any advice?
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Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: ycal19
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 9:39pm
Hello ycal!

 
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Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: ycal19
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 5:33pm
Honey, you're still *kinda* with someone, why are you looking? This guy is not going to be a relationship, he wants sex from you, that seems to be it. Since it didn't happen because the hotels were booked, take that as a sign and move on.

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