Is he interested in me as a friend OR

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Is he interested in me as a friend OR
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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 2:52pm
I met a nice attractive guy through social circles 4 weeks ago. He asked for my business card which includes my cell #. At nite I turn off my cell, because I use my home phone. The 1st couple of weeks, in the morning when I would turn on my cell... I would have 1 or 2 messages from him. This would happen two or three times a week.

Eventually I gave him my home #. He invited out twice to discuss business (he says). Instead of discussing business he asked me personal questions, like where did I grow up, do I like my job, do I have any children, etc.

He has told me over and over again to call him at anytime about anything. He wants me to feel free to call him. THIS GUY IS HUMBLE BY NATURE, HE APPEARS TO BE A GENTLEMEN.

I like him, but don't want to maka a fool of myself by misreading his intentions. It would be embarrassing if I pursued him only to find out he's a friendly guy.

What do you think?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 3:03pm
I do think he's interested in you because he has called you several times. I think if a man is not interested, he won't call. If you say he calls you to talk about business and never talks about it, its just an excuse he gives you to see you and get to know you. So yes he's interested. Just take things slow and let him do the pursuing the way he has been doing.

I hope everything goes well.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 5:46pm

You don't have to do any pursuing ... he's doing a fine job on his own.

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 11:45pm

Hello heavenly!

 
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 2:23pm
Sounds like he has a more than friend interest in you. I would accept his calls, requests to get together (if that is what you want to do) and see if he wants to take it to the next level. He will give you an indication...
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