Is he interested or not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-23-2004
Is he interested or not?
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Tue, 11-23-2004 - 11:12am
Not too long ago I met this guy named John. When we first met he was so thrilled to meet me and was so nervous around me he was shaking like crazy. He gave me a million compliments and told me he was single and was trying to gain custody of his son at the moment from his ex-wife. All week he called me every day to see me and tell me he was thinking about me. Every time we hung out it he seemed like a kid in a candy store who couldn't sit still. But recently it seems like every time he calls to make arrangements to hang out he never follows through on the plans without another phone call to let me know he's not going to show up. He doesn't call me until the next day to tell me he was busy. He is the one who always makes plans but then he keeps breaking them with the same excuse. Now he doesn't call for a week at a time. After not hearing from him for a period of time I always call to see how's he doing. He always apologizes and says he's been busy. He starts to call again like before and then he stops calling again. I don't understand what's going on. Does he want me or not?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Tue, 11-23-2004 - 12:29pm
The novelty has worn off hon. Now that he's back to his work and real life he's not pursuing you. He's just there and if you call he'd say "sorry, I'm busy". I wouldn't waste more time with this guy. Usually, guys who are too interested at the begining are the ones who loss interested after a few days.