is he interested or not? time 2 move on?
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| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 10:37am |
i am feeling ultra unclear of what is goin on in my lovelife or the lack of it. need som advice from the folks here.
Background:
I have known this guy for around 10 months or so from work..he was being assigned to me as my buddy at work.... he was there when i broke up with the previous ex, consoling me etc, which was how we actually grew closer..
We often go away on short trip over the weekends, yeah just the 2 of us.. (but no sex here) just 2 persons enjoying the time together talking, etc etc.. Somehow overtime i have grown to have liking for him.. but i m totally clueless of how he feels for me...
sometimes he will be v cold.. totally no calls for a week or so ( k.. he is busy with work..) then on other days he will ask me out for supper ev night...
recently when i got my car, he personally took time off work (lying to our boss that his auto gate spoiled) and accompany me to get my car.. and gave me driving lessons to revive my rusty skills...
we always laugh it off when our fellow colleagues see us as an item. many have also came and ask if we are together... even the management thinks that we are a couple... n we will always tell them we are not an item.. even when we go out n meet either his fren or my frens, they will ask us if we are couple.... somehow this is getting irritating.. in other;s eye's we are together, in my heart i wish we are.. but i always have to say we are not...
recently, he mentioned that he wants to marry only when he is 30 (he is 25 now) and he wants a ger who is 5 yrs his junior... hearing that make me sad ( i m 24 this yr)... and he laugh n grin at me after saying that..
worse still now he has a crazy idea that i like another guy whom i m close to at work... sighhh
wat should i do? it is really geting on my nerves and i dun dare ask him if we have any possibility of building a love relationship and put this perfect friendship in jeopardy...coz we have talk abt this b4 v much earlier in the beginning of our friendship and we both agree that we treasure this friendship more than anything else...
| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 11:32am |

