He Just Disappeared!
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| Sun, 07-30-2006 - 9:21pm |
Hello all.
For the past 7 months, I've been dating a man who I have really started to get attached to. When we first met, he had been out of a 4 year relationship for 6 months and he admitted he was not over his ex. However, I (foolishly, I suppose), thought that things would get better over time. This month (July) was the month they broke up... so it's been a year now. He told me at the beginning of this month that he was having a really hard time still dealing with his relationship ending. He was very in love with this girl, going to marry her, and she broke his heart. The last time we hung out was at the beginning of this month and we *appeared* to have a really good time (no sex). I haven't heard from him since. Nothing. Not an email, phone call, text message... NOTHING. WTF? I thought at first he just needed a little space... so I made a concious decision not to contact him... BUT IT'S BEEN A MONTH SINCE WE LAST HAD CONTACT!!! What's worse, we were both on good terms last time we hung out. WHAT HAPPENED? We went out for 7 months!!! Any advice would be appreciated.

This is leaving such a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach. I mean, we had GOOD TIMES for 7 MONTHS... AND THEN NOTHING!!! This is retarded. So hard to process. Do you think he'll come back eventually with an explanation? Has this ever happened to anyone else?
It's possible that he could come back to you, but the question is "Are you willing to take him back after this? How long are you willing to wait for this guy? If he coems back and gives you an excuse that you believe, would you get into a relationship with this guy again?
I've heard of guys and girls who disappear within the first 4 to 6 months. It appears that you guy had deeper issues.