he is just not into me??

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
he is just not into me??
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Fri, 10-05-2007 - 3:22pm

hi my favourite board, your advice pls!

is it normal with a guy that u met twice so far but have talked on a chat already a number of times - that he calls or writes you just once a week ? that he can cancel on a date ("i'm sick so prefer to stay in, sorry didnt call u before")and then take u out the next day? and then come to chat talk casually and never ask you out? and then disappear? we had lunch last Sat and then just chat briefly yday. thats it for this week!!!

he told me on a chat how much he likes me but his behaviour is saying the opposite. should i freak out? bail out? wait and relax?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 10-07-2007 - 4:00pm
You dont have to step back and expect nothing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 4:34am

thanks snafu2006. i dont feel like a complete loser now after reading ur message :)


talked to my mom about it last night. she also lifted my mood 'hey, think of him as ur gay friend or girlfriend! u r not ready for real relationthip anyways, so why bother with spoiling ur mood if he is not available? would u be that upset if ur girlfriend would not call u for a week?' SOOO right :) instant mood life. he he


so i will give it a time and focus on other things and then might give him a call to check on him. for now i still feel like not calling coz 1. he wasnt available last time i called so i dont want to sound obsessive and persistent. 2. my close friend has just been dumped so she needs me much more than him


thank u all for ur 2cents! do really appreciate

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:31am
Of course you are not a loser.

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