He just stopped calling
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| Tue, 11-15-2005 - 2:20pm |
I met up with an old boyfriend from 15 years ago. We had been talking for about 5 months and he came to see me. Everything was great. He talked about how beautiful I was and that he loved everything about me. We really hit it off. We talked everyday for a month sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. He was coming back to see me. One and 1/2 weeks before he was planning to come my phone got turned off for 4 days. I turned it back on and called him...no answer, he never called me back..never returned e-mails, sent me to voice mail when I called. Will not talk to me at all. And of course he never came in to town to visit. I am really upset and wonder what it could be? The phone? Why could he not at least tell me why he is not talking to me. I am really confused because when we did talk all he talked about was how awesome I was???
Any ADVICE?????

What do you mean, your phone got turned off? Couldn't you email him in the meantime?
Did you explain to him what happened and why you didn't talk to him for 4 days?
Sheri
Thanks for the explanation. Yep, unfortunately, it sounds like he really is that rude.
I'm sorry you thought he was better than that. Some guys just aren't.
Sheri
Maybe just lay low for a while and let him contact you again. But don't let your heart get too caught up in him.
Hope this helps :)
That's the problem with WORDS... that's all they are.
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If the reason for his silence is that your phone was turned off for 4 days (which you later explained) then he really is someone who you don't need in your life. And that he's not giving you the courtesy of an explanation is also troublesome and indication of how he might treat you if you got more deeply involved.