He left.
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| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 9:44am |
was due to leave the day after his last final. He was going on
vacation for three weeks to Asia with his father.
Ok. Met up with this guy that I met online and we hit if off.
I found him both attractive and interesting. So we had a nice first
date.
He asked me out for a 2nd date. He took me to a lovely restaurant
and then we went dancing. Had a blast.
He wrote to me promptly after the 2nd date. I initiated the 3rd date
by saying "Perhaps we could meet up again before you leave for the
other side of the world". He said he'd like that and wanted to know
what my schedule looked like cause his was rather full. We went out
on our third date this past Sunday. Another great dinner.
He writes to me the after the date and wanted to know how I was and
told me that I was "delightful company".
Ok, that was Tuesday early afternoon. Never heard from him again and
yesterday (Thursday) he got on the plane and left for Asia. No see ya
later, no goodbye, no maybe I'll call you when I get back...NOTHING!
Was I written off? I know we weren't in any kind of relationship but
it just seemed normal that one would say 'good bye'. Was that it?

I don't think you should be too concerned.
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Tuesday evening wishing him good luck on his final. I figured
we'd do the 'good bye' 'safe trip' thing on Wed or Thurs morning
but that never happened. And, no, he hadn't mentioned getting
together upon his return.
So are these bad signs then?