He likes me, he likes me not

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Registered: 07-29-2003
He likes me, he likes me not
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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 12:48am
There's this guy who've I've been friends with for about 2 years. We met at the pharamacy, where he worked and he found out my number and called me. We went on a couple of dates and spoke on the phone and he asked me out. I turned him down because I just didn't like him in that way at that point. But now I do and I don't know if he feels the same way. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks and I really miss him and want him to miss me. My feelings are growing for him but I don't kow what to do because I don't know if he likes me. We've never even kissed. He tried once and I turned my head, that was like 2 mos ago or so. There's all these other guys that I think are cute and call me but all I seem to think about is him and now he doesn't even call me like he used to. What should I do?
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Registered: 09-30-2004
Sun, 11-14-2004 - 10:29am
Hi mala, just read your post and if you're really sure you like this guy then maybe text him or give him a call - have you still got his number? The reason he doesnt call anymore or anything like that is because he thinks you're not interested - he was giving you all those signals and you werent giving them back, - turning your face away when he tried to kiss you is another definite one...... if this was you interested in a guy and he did that, you'd be thinking the same and that you're in a no win situation.......you need to give the guy some encouragement, let him know you do like him, otherwise he's still going to be thinking you dont like him....Let us know how it goes!

Alice x