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He is that into me !
| Sun, 10-24-2004 - 3:20pm |
I met this man online through a dating service.I initiated the first e-mail of
interest and he took over from that point.He has responded over and over with many positive messages.He gave his phone no. 3 times in the 1st month of e-mailing, just to
give me security about it being ok to contact him at his home.He is a single man and
he lives alone.He is aprofessional person.And he teaches bible study in his church.
He communicates to me in all honesty about the type of relationship he wants out of a
mate.I am turning 50 in acouple of weeks.I have bought a ticket to fly to san diego,
where he lives,he invited me to come down.I'll be there and staying at his home for 4 days to get to know this person,whom I fill totally comfortable with through all phone calls we've had.I want to know is this friendship going further or what? Am I doing what's right about meeting him in his residing city? What have I not done or need to do?I do care alot for him.Should I have sex if I feel so connected?
interest and he took over from that point.He has responded over and over with many positive messages.He gave his phone no. 3 times in the 1st month of e-mailing, just to
give me security about it being ok to contact him at his home.He is a single man and
he lives alone.He is aprofessional person.And he teaches bible study in his church.
He communicates to me in all honesty about the type of relationship he wants out of a
mate.I am turning 50 in acouple of weeks.I have bought a ticket to fly to san diego,
where he lives,he invited me to come down.I'll be there and staying at his home for 4 days to get to know this person,whom I fill totally comfortable with through all phone calls we've had.I want to know is this friendship going further or what? Am I doing what's right about meeting him in his residing city? What have I not done or need to do?I do care alot for him.Should I have sex if I feel so connected?

Its great that you feel safe but you really don't know this man. Please stay in a hotel.
I have met all sorts...from Bible school teachers, pastors. You must keep in mind....men will do what it takes to get you into bed.
The fact that he wants you to stay at his house worries me. He should at the very least pay for you to stay in a Hotel. Staying at house....no matter how safe and comfortable you feel with this guy....is simply not very smart. Not on the the first meeting.
You can never be too safe.
Good Luck
Jodie
http://tickers.ticke
You don't know this guy - you've talked on the phone, made huge assumptions about his character and intentions and are now going to put yourself at risk by being entrusted to him wihtout transportation or another accommodation!
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Have you had him investigated, is that how you know the things he's telling you are true?
It would be beyond foolish of you to stay with this STRANGER. I don't care how much you've talked on the phone or how "connected" you feel. At a minimum, stay in a hotel and make your first meeting a short one in a public place. And be sure to give a friend or family member all of his contact information.
Sheri
Mimayee