Is he into me?

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Registered: 04-15-2004
Is he into me?
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Fri, 04-16-2004 - 1:39am
There’s a guy I’m interested in but not sure if he’s into me. He works at a coffee shop where I study and I see him there quite often. It’s been a couple of months and he hasn’t said much to me. He just asks how I’m doing & that’s pretty much it. He looks in my direction a lot, sometimes brings my drinks directly to my desk. He knows all my favorite drinks. But he’s very quiet & doesn’t talk much. How can I tell if he’s into me and how can I get him to open up a bit? Also, could he be intimidated by me since he hasn't gone to college & I'm planning to start graduate school?

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Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: elham_cre
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 2:54am
this guy could possibly be intimidated by you or just kinda shy but either way the best advice i can offer is to just be up front with him. if you like him let him know, but first if you don't know any of his friends or anyone else that would know anything about him i would ask him a few casual questions to find out if hes single then find out what kind of things he likes to do like what kind of movies he likes then suggest going to see one some time in a playful manner and see how he reacts. life is too short to have to wonder and besides while you're wondering someone else may be planning on making thier move. and since you're planning on attending graduate school you sound like a very intelligent person who would have alot to offer any man. hope this helped
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In reply to: elham_cre
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 8:39am
I like this advice!
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Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: elham_cre
Sun, 04-18-2004 - 11:45pm
thanks i'm good with everybodys problems but my own